So how many of you got some information this week where some dream, hope, vision you had for yourself ended up in a head on collision with the truth? Where did something that seemed so real turn out to be an illusion? And even worse….an illusion you thought you had worked through: a repetition of a pattern that seemed long gone. Something that you thought you had conquered and here it is again…rearing its ugly head.
Don’t get mad. Don’t get even. Don’t look back in anger. Know that something in that situation was necessary to you. Know that you knew on some level it wasn’t going to turn out how you hoped, but there was an immediate need you wanted to fill. You knew the situation was imperfect, but it was what you needed at the time. You knew that it was a constant source of stress, anxiety, inconsistency, but you thought you’d try. Lesson learned.
So let it go now. Not with anger, because that’s holding on. Just let it rise up into the ethers as smoke. The dream is not dead. And actually looking at the cards, charts etc….the dream is just beginning. Don’t think of taking that guy back. Don’t fight to keep that job. Don’t engage in a battle of wills that’s not worth your energy. Allow yourself to say – yeah, I got what i wanted out of this…it’s time for the next chapter. Purifying through fire, we rise above.
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