I’m reminded today of the old joke that goes like this:

A man goes to the church every day to light a candle “Please God, let me win the lottery.”
This continues for months. “Please God, let me win the lottery.”
Finally God responds “My son, please buy a ticket.”

We want a lot of things. We spend our days praying, visualizing, law of attraction-ing the things in our life that we want to change and the things we want to bring in. Of course we can’t go anywhere without a vision or an intention, but if we want things to manifest there is only one way: we must take the necessary steps.

We can’t have toxic relationship patterns and visualize a healthy one coming in, unless we plan on doing the work to make sure we’re ready, willing and able to keep one. We cannot stop drinking until we’re willing to make lifestyle changes. We cannot get our dream job without putting in the time and effort.

Did you know that in the US nearly 35% of all lottery winners declare bankruptcy? Most within 3-5 years of winning. Why? Because the process of obtaining what you want, trains you to manage and keep it.

When things fall in our lap without the effort, we are rarely road ready. Imagine getting a Ferrari right after you’ve gotten your license. 🙈

So let’s be wary of easy wishing. There is purpose in the process. Let’s make our recipe for change a prayer….and a plan.